jgn merasekan bile kite tiade boyfren,girlfren ataupun family idup kte akan sunyi...kite sebenarnye blh hdp dgn pnh kegembiraan walaupun bersendiri...ade bnyk care untuk menghindarkan diri kite dari rase kesunyian..mmg rase tdk lengkap hdp ini klu tdk mempunyai pasangan..Keep in mind that humans are indeed social animals,but that doesn't mean that we can't be perfectly happy outside of society too.mari kite same2 kongsi tips utk m'hindarkan rase diri kite ni sunyi bile bersendiri....aku dh experience bende ni...ade tips2 yg aku dh ikut...so far ok la...aku hapy je....meh kite kongsi same2.....
STEP 1 = Be happy
Live a life of optimism.Happiness comes from within regardless of your situation,so don’t use any excuses, such as being alone.
STEP 2 = Do everything you would normally do with a partner or friend
Many times it isn't the partner or friend you are missing, but the activities and hobbies you shared. Take yourself out for a date. For example, if you would have gone out to dinner or to a movie on a date, then take yourself out to a movie or to a nice restaurant. Don't hold yourself back.
STEP 3 = Learn something new
Learning is the most important aspect of living alone. It helps to keep the boogeyman away, and also gives you something to talk about when you do have to actually enter society.
STEP 4 = Get a pet
Humans need affection, without it they become bitter and hate the world around them. Pets are always a source of affection and will give loads of it endlessly.
STEP 5 = Read
Now may be the time to catch up on some of your reading. Not only is it fun and enjoyable, but it's also self-education and a way to round yourself as a person.
STEP 6 = Join an on-line community
Don't limit your on-line activities to just games. Join forums or chat rooms to meet new people also. Take whatever you're interested in and find other people like you.
STEP 7 = Think
Be introspective. Contemplate or ponder things.Above all, contemplation is one of the most important self-building things you can do. Think about what makes you you. What do you believe in? Why? Are there any things that don't seem right to you? What do you believe at face value (or accept as a matter of faith)?
STEP 8 = Exercise
Be consistent. Exercise takes willpower and diligence. Make a schedule and stick to it. Keep it easy at first and you will discover your limits. Or, join a gym and create new friends there.
STEP 9 = Listen to lots of music
If you are a music fan then you can enjoy being alone by listening to music you enjoy or music that brings back memories of certain events.
STEP 10 = Go outside
It's a big world out there, and you're only seeing a small fraction of it. Forget the people, just enjoy what life has to offer. Once you do that, then people will want to know and be with you. Frankly, you won't have a choice but to have friends!
By the way, step2 kat ats ade yg dah aku ikut....effective la...i hapy wif my life now...actually the important things that will make we happy is frens...dieorg yg slalu ade ngan kite...a good fren akan ade ngan kite bile kite ssh atau pun sng...a good fren gak akan time kite seadanye diri kite skrg...a good fren akan sentiase support kite,back up kite walau ape care skali pn...jgn pikir bl kite xde bf,gf or family kite akan kesunyian....kwn sentiase ade sekeliling kite..melainkan klu kwn2 pulaukan kite..hahaha...'sentap mak nak'...hehe...renung-renungkan....selamat beramal...